How To Overcome Findom Addiction: Tips & Strategies To Avoid Financial Domination

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Indeed, scratch the surface and start talking to people and you will find a rich vein of those for whom addiction to findom has become a problem in their life. Causing relationship breakdowns, poverty and depression. Few people know about the phenomenon of Findom. It’s not completely new, but has been steadily rising over the past few years as we become increasingly involved in the online world. Have I neglected my responsibilities at work, as a family member or friend, or at school due to engaging in findom? For those that want a dominant will pose as a “therapist” to roleplay giving help but actually just making the “addict” give more. For example :- Being an addict means you’re not in control of your own actions. Which means that enabling their addiction for profit is non-consensual.

You can expect the future to see a further rise in porn addiction and consequently Findom addiction. So what do we do? Such men realize that they were, in the moment, all too happy lavishing money on their findom for erotic thrills. Though this is a complex compulsion and one difficult to quit, many male addicts find themselves pledging to leave their findoms in the New Year. These questions are no substitute for diagnosis and should not be your definitive source in deciding whether you have a problem with findom. As such we can only suggest that, if you answer yes to most of these questions, you seek professional and/ or community help.I've also thought about the root of this addiction and I can't come up with anything other than that it feels so good to me, but sometimes I feel quite bad afterward. At this point, I feel like being a sub and a masochist is part of my sexual identity and it's just who I am, but I need to find a healthier outlet for it. At the same time I don't know if it's findom that is the problem or my kinks (findom is just one part, probably the most unhealthy one), and if I can even do anything about it. A draw or trigger to participate (this can literally just be “feeling horny” once addiction has set in)

A tv show character (Verne on FXX Chanel’s “You’re The Worst”) recently described himself a “money slave”. A doctor with a pregnant wife, Verne has depleted their assets, as he’s in thrall to a financial domme or “findom” (a woman who practices financial domination). Such a woman tells the guy — whom she calls a money slave, pay pig, or human wallet — that he’s a stupid loser. She’ll laugh at him, verbally emasculate him, try to make him cry. But not only will the fellow be turned on by this scenario, he’ll pay her to continue lobbing insults his way. Tv’s Verne has spent a few hundred thousand dollars on his findom. Though some may consider this development a rather outlandish plot devise, in actuality, more than a few men have had their lives run (and ruined) by a findom. It’s probably important for clarity to note that, being addicted to dopamine itself isn’t how this works. As this is a chemical your brain produces naturally, people don’t get addicted to the chemical itself. Neither does dopamine itself make you feel great alone. https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/articles/22581-dopamine#:~:text=Dopamine%20is%20a%20neurotransmitter%20made,%2C%20mood%2C%20attention%20and%20more To the fellow who sexually responds to a cruel, greedy woman, this is exactly what he needs. He may have a wife and kids who love and depend on him — but producing for a bratty, demanding, unobtainable woman is what drives him. Ridicule is the best medicine. For most men, hearing a haughty young woman laugh and call them a “loser” would be the ultimate mood-killer. But for pay pigs, such insults will likely result in an erection. Being called a “pathetic old creep” is a particularly potent remark in the findom community. These men don’t feel preyed upon; instead, they are highly aroused.She can dictate not just his expenditures, but his every move! Seasoned findoms are able to tell when a man craves being completely controlled. In such cases, she’ll tell her guy what to eat, approve his daily wardrobe choices, and green light or disapprove all expenditures. An experienced findom’s end goal isn’t merely being important to her pay pig — it’s running every aspect of his life.